Shower is overrated

When I was in college... taking a shower is like wasting my studying time... but these days.. shower is like heaven, if I can take it in PEACE!!

Also, what's the point of taking a shower IF.. few hours later, got spit up all over me? my mom friend told me, just take it before you go to bed. That's not an option for me... before bed time is my ME time, I want to relax and watch TV or stalk browse facebook friends page.

Anyway tips for new moms out there, make sure you feed the baby first.. and then change to the clothes that you want to wear to go out. not the other way around... I learned it the hard way :(

Panties!! Panties!!!!

Is it just my kid or everyone has gone thru the same phase??!!

After big C goes to the bathroom, she always:
1. Leave me a "presents" floating
2. BUNCH of toilet papers.. when I said bunch.. means HALF of the toilet paper roll in the toilet
3. Little drips here and there on the seat
4. soap bottle on the floor..
5. water still dripping from the faucet
6. PANTIES on the floor!!

yeap... she refused to put her panties back on! so almost all the time after she went to the bathroom I have to yell "FLUSH!!!!" or "PANTIES!! where is your panties??!!!" or "Put on your panties!!!"

and her replies usually "O yeah I forgot to flush!!" and "my panties inside out mommy!!" OR "my panties smells like poop!! I want a new one"

long sigh.......

3 is the advanced of trouble 2

People says that 3 yrs old usually easier than 2s... YEA RITE! 3 is the ADVANCED of a trouble 2s!

reasoning, negotiating, why-ing, whinning, and so on and so on... I wish I could do the "asian parenting" style. Where kids has no rights what soever to talk or questions anything.

I remember when I was a kid, whatever served in your plate, you can't asked what is it, or asking for a different food. What's in front of you, you have to eat it... and you're not supposed to sniff it either!!! just chug it! like it or not.

No debating, no compromising... My big C (my oldest girl) just turned 3 last July, and she's a handful! why did I say that? she's so good at manipulating people.. she can be sweet and sour in the same time!

WHY MOMMY WHY??!! WHY??? WHY??? when she was 2, she loves to call me for no reason.. "mommy... mommy... mommy? mommy.. mommy.. mama?? mamaaa... mom?? mommy??? MOMMYYYYYYYYYYYYY" grrrrrrrrrrr

It's Thursday, I feel like ignoring her all day... is it possible?? NO... I couldn't even took a shower in peace today!! she was screaming in front of the bathroom door!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Introduction

Hi, I'm the new hot momma in town! I have 2 beautiful bi-racial girls (from the same dad), a 3 yrs old and a 5 mos old baby. I enjoy being a mom, but sometimes we always think everything is so pretty being a stay at home mom, in this blog I will reveal the ugly truth about being a parent!!!

You can either hate me or love me, but I will tell the truth no matter what.

I was born and raised in Jakarta, the capital city of Indonesia. I WAS a city girl, in 1999 I moved to a small town in IOWA for college, and stuck in here ever since.. I met my WHITE husband in 2003, got married in 2005. Our first daughter born in 2007, and the newbie one just born this year 2010 in March.

I hope you will enjoy my blog, I bet you will feel good about yourself after reading my blog & my life :D or at least you will think "oo.. I'm not alone..." :D

Please pass this blog to all the moms out there :D

xoxo,

hot momma dee